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zondag 28 april 2019

Day 362 - The Measure of a Man (Film 2015)

I recently saw the French movie named 'La Loi du Marché' which should have been translated as 'The Law of the Market' but instead you will find translated as 'The Measure of a Man'.

In this story the main character faces unemployment after having been fired from his previous job. He then faces the bureaucracy of the supporting organisations that exist to offer him support with getting him hired again, but he soon realises that these mostly exist to keep him busy and going in circles. Within this process he faces a lot of stress because he has a son who is handicapped and who requires a lot of expensive care and special treatment. Additionally he has not yet fully paid off the loan on their house.

When he then finds a job again he is faced with internal conflict as he is made to perform tasks that he feels 'bad' about. He is namely hired as a security agent to control the shopping behavior of customers in a large grocery store. As he is introduced into his role, which involves learning how to operate all the security camera's in the store, he learns that he must not only check on the customers but also on the employees of the store. In effect, his task is also to make sure that employees do not steal from the store.

The strength of this movie is in showing the reality of people, both customers and employees alike, not being able to make ends meet and who will be compelled to steal in a grocery store. Most people who are caught stealing seem to be people who simply don't have enough money to buy the things they would like or which they require. This will place the main character in a difficult position as his testimony as a security agent will be used to fire those employees who have been caught stealing. This causes him heartache because he knows exactly what they are going through as he has been there himself.

In one particular instance the firing of an employee leads to a suicide as the person could no longer support herself and she had a son with drug problems. After this and a few more instances, the main character one day decides to walk away from his job as he is disgusted with himself and what he has to do for money.

This is where I want to offer perspective.

As much as I can understand the reaction of the main-character, the actual answer was not within walking away from his job. The system and the world we live in is a cruelty beyond words - but it is one which we have created collectively. This means that the system nor any part of it can be judged or 'rejected' - it has to be 'walked' so as to understand ourselves and how we created this. We have been brainwashed to believe that 'standing up' means to fight the system, but this is not so. Standing up means first and foremost taking responsibility for ourselves and 'who we are' as the version of 'life' we have become. Are we proud of ourselves in thought, word and deed or are we ashamed of the things we secretly think and participate in in our minds? How can we judge the system when we cannot even stop our own secret thoughts of spitefulness towards eachother? The only real change is inner change and only then can a new system emerge. 

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zondag 17 juli 2016

Day 330 - The Design of Giving up

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have defined myself within and as 'giving up' - believing myself to be 'giving up'.

How/where/when did I create myself within and as this experience? In school where I believed the whole thing - that which is expected of me - to be impossible, and thus I gave up.

I forgive myself that I have in school only performed to a limited extent - not investing the whole of me within the belief that it is impossible, and therefore why should I even risk giving it my all.

I commit myself to reveal to myself and allow myself into my full potential as self-movement and self-dedication as self-expression.

I forgive myself that I have accepted and allowed myself to have experienced school as 'limitation' and as a prison, instead of seeing it as potential and as possibility. I realise and understand that education is/was not a 'container' but an opportunity for self-empowerment and self-enrichment.

I realise and understand that I determined my experience in school through believing myself to be a slave and powerless, instead of realising my power as self-creation and self-will.

With regards to the cycles of giving up: I realise that I am not real yet, yet I have the power to walk a decision to become real as life.

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